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		<title>Dirtyharuto: Created page with &quot;&lt;p&gt;It was supposed to be a simple grocery shopping trip. I have a small apartment, with a small kitchen, with not a lot of storage, so when I went to the grocery store, I went...&quot;</title>
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		<summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Created page with &amp;quot;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It was supposed to be a simple grocery shopping trip. I have a small apartment, with a small kitchen, with not a lot of storage, so when I went to the grocery store, I went...&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;New page&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It was supposed to be a simple grocery shopping trip. I have a small apartment, with a small kitchen, with not a lot of storage, so when I went to the grocery store, I went with the intent of purchasing enough food to plan a few days worth of meals, and I only ate two meals a day anyway. If I ever purchased breakfast food, it was because I&amp;#039;d planned on using it to have breakfast for dinner. I stood in one of three aisles full of freezers, where all the frozen food is stored and displayed... you&amp;#039;ve most likely been to a grocery store in your life, so you don&amp;#039;t need me to explain the normal layout of a grocery store, do you?&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;It was late, nearly 10:30 at night, and the store would be closing at midnight, and I was adding a few packages of frozen corn to my shopping cart when a woman rounded the corner, coming into the same aisle. Her hair was in disarray, her makeup smudged with tears, and she looked simply miserable, though there&amp;#039;s never anything simple about it, is there? She appeared to be Japanese or Korean, sometimes I can&amp;#039;t tell, though I&amp;#039;m told there are differences in appearance between the two. I&amp;#039;m not racist, I just can&amp;#039;t tell the difference sometimes. She was dressed in an old sea-foam-green cardigan and dark slacks, and had scuffed looking flats on her feet. Shopping seemed to be the last thing on her mind, but she still stopped at a freezer and grabbed a box of three-cheese lasagna and dropped it in her cart. &amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;She didn&amp;#039;t seem to see me as she passed, and, as I got a closer look at her face, I could see that she must be in her late twenties, maybe as old as 30, but perhaps the smeared makeup, mainly her mascara, made her look older, I thought. At first, I was hesitant to even speak to her, thinking that, whatever her problems, they were just that: her problems. But then she stopped, her back to me, and I could see her hunch over her shopping cart, and her shoulders started to shake as she sobbed quietly. &amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Shit, I thought to myself, I&amp;#039;m gonna get involved and she&amp;#039;s probably gonna screech at me and cause a scene, but I&amp;#039;m gonna go and get involved anyway, because, if there&amp;#039;s anything that gets to me the most, it&amp;#039;s seeing a woman cry like that. I left my cart and approached her carefully, for some reason, a clip from The Crocodile Hunter coming to mind, &amp;#039;Whoa! There&amp;#039;s not many creatures as dangerous as the sobbing Asian lady, one bite from her will send you right to the hospital for stitches... I&amp;#039;m gonna pat her back!&amp;#039;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;Excuse me,&amp;quot; I spoke quietly as I stood about a foot from her back, &amp;quot;Are you okay https://www.dirtyharuto.com She still started, and she hunched a little further, as if expecting to be hit, before turning to face me, &amp;quot;Oh... I&amp;#039;m sorry...&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Her English was saturated heavily by her accent, but she spoke carefully to make sure they came out properly.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;Is there something the matter?&amp;quot; I asked, keeping my voice low and soothing, trying to appear as nonthreatening as possible, as she seemed almost about to flee.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;Oh, no... I... I&amp;#039;m okay...&amp;quot; she wouldn&amp;#039;t look me in the eye, her eyes fastened to the floor in a very demure fashion. &amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s just that you&amp;#039;re crying,&amp;quot; I said, &amp;quot;Is it something you&amp;#039;d like to talk about?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;She stifled a sob, sniffled, and sighed, &amp;quot;I am... I... am sad.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Not a very specific type of answer, I still asked, &amp;quot;Would you like to talk about it? I&amp;#039;m not busy or anything, so I have time.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;I should not speak bad about my... my husband... he brought me here to this country, and he make sure I have a roof over my head.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;I nodded, &amp;quot;We can sit and talk about it, if you&amp;#039;d like.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;She hesitated, stealing the barest of glances at me before lowering her head once more, &amp;quot;O-okay. Where do we sit and talk?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s a diner across the street,&amp;quot; I suggested, &amp;quot;We can have some coffee if you want.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;But your shopping?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;I shrugged, &amp;quot;I can come back tomorrow and do it then. What about yours? Do you need to finish shopping first?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;She wiped her eyes, &amp;quot;I... just... I pretend to watch movies&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;And why is that?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;So they not make me leave...&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;I had to think about that for a minute, and then I asked, &amp;quot;How about we put these things back in the freezer then, okay?&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;So she returned the lasagna to the freezer, and I put my frozen corn back. She had nothing else in her cart, and I had a few boxes of Minute Rice and a bottle of orange juice, but it would be fine until someone put it up. I would&amp;#039;ve, but I had other priorities, trying to do that whole &amp;#039;white-knight&amp;#039; thing I tend to do that gets me into trouble more often than not. I walked with her out the front door, through the parking lot, and across the street to a diner called Sylvia&amp;#039;s. Sylvia&amp;#039;s was a bit run down, but clean, and the food was decent as long as you like it greasy. I chose an empty booth and gestured for the woman to sit down before I sat. &amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;The waitress, a tired-looking sixty-year-old woman with her mousy-brown hair done up in a tight bun slapped two menus down in front of us.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;Two coffees to start, please?&amp;quot; I ordered.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;Cream and sugar&amp;#039;s in the dish there,&amp;quot; she pointed, &amp;quot;Be right back.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;The Asian woman simply sat with her hands clasped together in her lap and her eyes on the table before her. &amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
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